As a psychotherapist who has been working with teenagers for 24 years, I have heard from many teenager guys that guys don’t cry. They view emotions as weak especially crying. In their opinion if you are going to be a man you can’t cry.
I have had many parents discuss the lack of emotions they have noticed with their teenage sons. They want to know how to help their sons because they believe emotions are important. Emotions are important for everyone. To be healthy you need good mental health too. In order to have good mental health you need to be able to express your feelings. The problem is helping teenage boys this point.
Teenage boys feel crying is weak because they are trying to live up to the stereotype about men. This is an issue we need to educate teenage boys about. They need to understand that the old stereotype doesn’t exist and it’s to be themselves.
Therefore, it is okay for men to cry and it is also okay for teenage boys to cry too. Therefore we need to teach boys that it’s okay and healthy for them to cry.
This is an issue I have been dealing with this issue for a long time. I did come across the following article which helps explain in a clear manner to men and boys that it’s okay to cry. If you have a teenage boy or a man in your life you care about, please read so you can help teenage boys https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/when-a-man-cries/
Dr. Rubino is a psychotherapist with over 24 years experience treating children and teenagers and trauma victims. For more information about Dr. Rubino’s work visit website http://www.RubinoCounseling.com or http://www.Facebook.com/Drrubino3.